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Anxious Adult Relationship Patterns
The science of psychology creates many definitions that are extremely useful in the endeavour of creating a definition. Utilizing multiple definitions and understanding that multiple fit and change over time is an important part of placing labels. There are four attachment styles; secure, anxious (preoccupied), avoident (dismissive), and fearful (disorganised). It is widely accepted that the secure attachment style is the golden standard, which sounds reasonable. This is one that I strive for daily. The question is, though, how do these attachment styles play out in daily life, in particular the anxious attachment style. Whatever your attachment style it is…
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Thought of the day – Judgement
When dating, we often have different red and green flags we look for. Furthermore, there are often requirements that we look for in one another. There are two things we must look look into before passing such a judgement. Matthew 7:1-2 NIV[1] “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. [2] For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. https://bible.com/bible/111/mat.7.1-2.NIV Through our own lives, we have grown to understand how the world works around us. We know what is right and what is…
Living Outside the Box 